Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Wednesday (day26)

Oh how rich are the blessings we receive from God each day! Today Deb called me at work excitedly to let me know that Shawna was taken off the ventilator and breathing on her own. There is a tube that supplies oxygen across the trachea which she breathes in and exhales on her own. She no longer has the ventilator keeping the damaged lung inflated and pushing air in. She seems to be doing pretty well on her own. Later at night they will reconnect the ventilator to give her a rest. Shawna also now recieves blood thinners to reduce the concerns of blood clots developing in her upper body. The body cavity infection seems to be under control. One problem which the doctors and nurses are working on is trying to get Shawna's stomach and digestive tract functioning properly. Although she recieves nitrients via IV it would be more advantageous to her to receive nutrients through the gut. When Deb and I look back and see how far the Lord has carried us from when Shawna had her accident we can only stand in awe of our great God. We continue to be surrounded and strengthened by the Communion of Saints from across the world.

Many have asked what happened to Shawna as it has not been spoken of directly. She was involved in a single motor vehicle collision. Her car was wrapped around a tree on the drivers side door. Traffic reconstruction dtermined speed of collision at 40 to 50 km/hr. She was tended to at the scene of the accident by several passerbys who kept her warm till she was extricated from the car and airlifted to Hamilton General. The extent of her injuries were unknown until the doctors performed emergency surgery to stop the bleeding almost 7 hrs later. We now know that her injuries are broken pelvis and damaged socket, 7 ribs broken on left side, cracked shoulder blade, smashed spleen, ripped,scraped, and deflated left lung, punctured liver and severe brain trauma, and some very deep cuts in her legs and ankle. When we look back at the overwhelming amount of damage that happened to our daughter we can only stand at her bedside in amazement at God's mecy. God is good, God is great! At this time it looks as if she is quietly sleeping.

Antother misconception some have is that the skull cap which was removed to allow the brain to swell has been replaced. This is not the case. Normally with head trauma when the surgeons can they remove the skull flap and insert it into the patients abdomen to allow it to receive nutrients and antibodies. In Shawnas case her body was too damged to do this so they put her skull cap in a freezer. She will have to be in tip top shape before they even think about replacing it as the danger for infection will be very great.

Thank you once again for your continued prayers. Al and Deb

17 comments:

Anonymous said...

So excited to hear she has been able to get off the ventilator for a while! Thanking God for every step forwards

love,
Jeannette

Anonymous said...

WOW!!! What a blessing to hear such great news. We together with many thank God for all His healing mercies bestowed on Shawna. We pray that her recovery will continue in this direction. Just want to let you all know we are still laying your and Shawnas needs before our gracious God. You're in our thoughts and prayers continually. Keith and Suzanne Wielink and family

Anonymous said...

Praise the Lord for all His great mercies! You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Josh and Dina Roodzant

Anonymous said...

Such good news. God is so good. We are thankful for the progress and continue to pray for strength and healing for you all.
John and Trudy VanLuik and family

Anonymous said...

God is good!!! We have seen that first hand and now again with your daughter we are constantly reminded of that! We thank our Lord for allowing her to breath on her own and we pray that this may continue to be the case! We pray for continued patience and extra measures of God's amazing grace when the anxiety steps in! Those moments can be so frightning! Let God continue to hold you close!!
We are praying as well for much wisdom for the Dr's and nurses! But more importantly...We are praying for her miracle!!! Keep looking to Him!! He is so very evidently holding you all!!! Ps 121
One day at a time....

Rich and Tracey Stam

Anonymous said...

Dear Mr and Mrs Bethlehem, Darryl, and family and friends of Shawna,

To those of us reading the daily blog, it seems that Shawna is on her way to recovery.
We are so thankful for these updates, and rejoice with every "baby step"!
However, I'm sure even with so much optimism we may have our "down times", doubting or despair. Yet we are able to turn to the only One who can give hope because He is our Rock in these troubled waters. There's a song I'd like to share - it breaks my heart every time I hear it - for all those waiting for Shawna to wake up. It's originally called "He's My Son" by Mark Schultz, but I've changed the words to fit our situation, seeing as it's not so much a plea for help without hope. Instead it's a prayer for those of us who sometimes feel at a loss during this trying time.

I'm down on my knees again tonight
I'm hoping this prayer will come out right
See there is a girl that needs Your help
There's not a thing I can do myself
Her parents are tired
I'm sure You can understand
Each night as she sleeps
They go in to hold her hand
And they try not to cry
As the tears fill their eyes.

You can hear me
Is she getting through the night?
You can see me
Can You make her feel all right?
You can hear me
Let me take her place somehow
See, she's not just any other
She's their daughter

Sometimes late at night I watch her sleep
I dream of the girl she'd like to be
I try to be strong and see her through
But God, who she needs right now is You
Let her grow old
Live life without this fear
What would it be
Living without her here
We're all so tired and we're scared
Let us know that You're right here

You can hear me,
You can see her,
Please don't leave her
She's our girl.

With much love and prayer,
a close friend of Shawna's

Anonymous said...

When we read what Shawna's body has all been through in the last month, it is incredible to see how our Heavenly Physician is showing not only to all of us but also to those who care for her each day (doctors and nurses) how powerful and merciful He truly is. how thankful we are to hear the progress Shawna has made once again, our Heavenly Father is certainly holding her close. We pray that He will continue to do so and will also continue to hold each of her family memebers and friends close, and give you all the strength and encouragement you each need.

Nathan and Aileen Diek and family

Anonymous said...

Continuing in prayer for all of you.
Bert & Anne Van Straten

Anonymous said...

We rejoice with you as we could read that Shawna is breathing on her own! Thanks be to God who works in wonderful ways!
Dave and Angelina Jans and boys

Tim and Elly Hutten said...

We are so thankful for the latest wonderful news and we praise the Lord with you for His mercies.
We continue to remember each of you in our daily prayers. May He continue to uphold you and grant His boundless mercy to Shawna

Tim and Elly Hutten and family

Anonymous said...

Dear Deb. and Al,
Almost 4500 Ki. away, yet we may rejoice with you at the good news you have recieved and shared with us. As we entrust ourselves into His care we are reminded that He is near and will never forsake His children. May you and yours draw comfort from His eternal presence and be comforted by His nearness in all of life's circomstances. Love Art, Martha and the VanDriels

Anonymous said...

Praise God from who all blessings flow, oraise Him all creatures here below, Praise Him above ye heavanly hosts, Praise Father, Son and Holy Ghost

Such a short hymn but so fitting for the progress in today's blog

love marlene and jack and family

Anonymous said...

What a blessing that Shawna has been able to come off the ventilator! We will also thank the Lord for that in our prayers....just wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this time.

Art and Emily Beijes and Family

Andy and Tina said...

Dear family of Shawna:
What a blessing!! One step closer to recovery again. When we read and are reminded how very severe Shawna's injuries were, we again stand in awe at the Power of our God! He sustains all of you each day. He has promised to give you all you are in need of each day, even if sometimes you may be so tired and stressed out. Look to Him! He has promised to carry you through, and He never breaks His promise!It is so nice to hear that the kids at school, at Guido and even at their weekly craft clubs ask to pray for Shawna. How rich we are in having the communion of saints. And that our kids(and grandkids) are also aware of this. They also confess that only with the Lord can we go on each day.
We wish you a good day, and may Shawna continue to recover as we go on one day at the time.
with love from the van Ykens

Anonymous said...

Al, Debbie and family
It is with tears of joy that I read your words Al and thank God for His mercies which are new every day and every morning. May He continue to surround you with hope, peace, patience and His grace.
Bill, Rolean and family

Anonymous said...

Bethlehems, It is our prayer that the Lord will guide you through this difficult time and may you find peace and under-standing through His word in all that He has planned for you and your family. Always in our prayers and thoughts the Pieffers Family.

Anonymous said...

Just letting you know we continue to remember you and Shawna in our thoughts and prayers. May God grant you strength and patience in this difficult time. We rejoice with you in the wonderful progress Shawna has made, and we pray for continued health and healing. Thank you for informing us about the accident and the extent of her injuries. We stand amazed at God's goodness, at your optimism and dedication, and at the prayers and words of encouragement by the church family. It's through trials like this that you must feel the richness of belonging to the communion of saints.
Gerhard and Teny Visscher